Debrief After a Mistake
Added 2026-10
Debrief After a Mistake — Chinese original prompt
孩子 [年龄] 岁，这次发生的事是 [具体经过]，结果是 [影响]。请设计一次复盘对话，用五个递进的问题带着他说：发生了什么、当时怎么想的、影响了谁、下次可以怎么做、需要我帮什么。每个问题后面附一句他不说话时的接法。仅作参考，涉及安全或伤害事件需专业人士介入。
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Example
Sample input
孩子 9 岁，把同学的水杯打碎了没敢说，最后是老师打电话我才知道。
The output should include
- 用五个递进问题带着他复盘
- 每问都附一句冷场时的接法
- 仅作参考，涉及伤害需专业介入
Replace these placeholders 3
Swap the bracketed parts for your own details before sending.
[年龄][具体经过][影响]
How to use
复盘放在双方都冷静之后，训完当场问「你错哪了」通常无效。
Try tweaking it
- Ask for a checklist and timeline, marking which parts need a professional.
- Replace "what should I do" with "which three things first, and when".
What you should get
- An ordered action list with deadlines
- What must be confirmed with a professional or official channel
Common mistakes
- Using it as the doctor or lawyer and acting on the answer directly.
- Taking a single conclusion without asking about preconditions or real costs.
How to check the output
- It gives an order of steps and a decision deadline.
- It flags what must be confirmed with a doctor, lawyer or official channel.
Where it works
- Good for: turning everyday decisions into checklists and timelines, flagging what needs a professional.
- Watch out: health, insurance and legal output is reference only — confirm with a doctor, broker or lawyer.