De-escalating an Angry Counterpart
Added 2026-10
De-escalating an Angry Counterpart — Chinese original prompt
在[场景]谈[事项]，对方因为[原因]情绪激动，说了[激烈表述]，我方底线是[底线]。请给四步应对话术：承认情绪但不认事实、复述对方核心诉求、把话题切回一个可量化条款、给出一个带条件的小让步。每步一两句，不要用「你冷静一点」。
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Example
Sample input
在续约谈判里谈服务价格，对方因为去年一次故障拍了桌子，说我们根本不负责，我不降价。
The output should include
- 四步各一两句并先承认情绪
- 复述对方诉求再切回量化条款
- 不用「你冷静一点」这类话
Replace these placeholders 5
Swap the bracketed parts for your own details before sending.
[场景][事项][原因][激烈表述][底线]
How to use
情绪高时不给新信息，等人降下来再谈条件。
Try tweaking it
- Set a turn limit (e.g. 5) and an exit condition, then ask for a score and rewrites.
- Have it play only the counterpart: no advice, no acting on your behalf.
What you should get
- A full exchange where the AI stays in the counterpart role
- A score plus sentences you could reuse
Common mistakes
- No turn limit, so the AI plays on and you never practise closing.
- Letting it both play the counterpart and coach you — the role blurs and nothing sticks.
How to check the output
- The AI plays only the counterpart — no advice, no acting for you.
- It ends with a score or rewritten lines that identify what worked.
Where it works
- Good for: having AI play only the counterpart, stay in role for a fixed number of turns, then step out and give a score or rewrite.
- Watch out: set the turn limit and exit condition; for medical or legal scenes, get professional review.