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Telling a Tutor the Method Isn't Working

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Telling a Tutor the Method Isn't Working — Chinese original prompt

你演[科目]大学生家教,认真但习惯按自己的思路讲,已经上了[次数]次课。我是[孩子]家长。规则:你会解释「这是标准解法」。我要不否定他的能力,用孩子的一道具体错题说明卡点,提出一个可试的调整(先讲例题/放慢/每次留五分钟复述),约定两周后再看。三轮后点评我有没有让对方感到被审判。
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Example

Sample input

你演数学家教,认真但习惯按自己思路讲,已上八次课。我是家长,想用孩子的一道错题说明卡点并提出调整。

The output should include

  • 不否定他的能力只说具体卡点
  • 提出可试的调整并约定复盘
  • 指出哪一句让人感到被审判

Replace these placeholders 3

Swap the bracketed parts for your own details before sending.

  • [科目]
  • [次数]
  • [孩子]
How to use

拿一道错题当证据,比说「孩子说你讲得不好」更容易合作。

Try tweaking it

  • Set a turn limit (e.g. 5) and an exit condition, then ask for a score and rewrites.
  • Have it play only the counterpart: no advice, no acting on your behalf.

What you should get

  • A full exchange where the AI stays in the counterpart role
  • A score plus sentences you could reuse

Common mistakes

  • No turn limit, so the AI plays on and you never practise closing.
  • Letting it both play the counterpart and coach you — the role blurs and nothing sticks.

How to check the output

  • The AI plays only the counterpart — no advice, no acting for you.
  • It ends with a score or rewritten lines that identify what worked.

Where it works

  • Good for: having AI play only the counterpart, stay in role for a fixed number of turns, then step out and give a score or rewrite.
  • Watch out: set the turn limit and exit condition; for medical or legal scenes, get professional review.

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