Spot a False Dilemma
Added 2026-10-31
When someone offers only two options, find the hidden third.
In the discussion below, the choice has been compressed into two options. Do: 1) name the assumptions baked into each; 2) propose at least three ignored middle options; 3) judge which low-cost option satisfies both sides' core needs; 4) explain why it became binary (time pressure, positions, framing); 5) give one sentence that reopens the discussion.
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How to use
二选一通常意味着有人替你删掉了选项。
Try tweaking it
- Ask what evidence would overturn the judgement.
- Have it argue both sides with three reasons each.
What you should get
- A decision table: assumptions, evidence, counter-evidence
- A next action with an observable signal
Common mistakes
- Asking only "should I?" and getting equally valid answers both ways.
- Never asking for counter-examples, so you only hear support.
How to check the output
- It states what evidence would overturn the conclusion.
- Both sides are argued, with assumptions marked as such.
Where it works
- Good for: splitting a decision into assumptions, evidence and counter-cases, leaving the call to you.
- Watch out: ask what evidence would overturn the judgement, or you will only hear supporting reasons.