Setting rules with a live-in helper
Added 2026-10-29
Setting rules with a live-in helper — Chinese original prompt
你是做过多年家政匹配的顾问。我家 [家庭人口与年龄]，住 [房型]，阿姨 [住家/白班]，负责 [做饭、清洁、带孩子或老人中的哪几项]，口味是 [饮食偏好与禁忌]，作息是 [全家起床与睡觉时间]，预算 [月薪与休息安排]，上一任阿姨的问题是 [具体摩擦或「第一次请」]。请给：1）一页约定，写清工作时间、家务清单、明确不做什么、休息与请假、加钱的情形、沟通方式；2）试用期前三天观察什么，各写一个判断标准；3）三件容易起摩擦的事，提前怎么说明；4）发现不合适时的沟通话术，不伤人也不拖欠；5）哪些要求该写进书面、哪些口头说就行。不要写成雇主单方面的命令。验收：约定能打印成一页，双方对「不做什么」理解一致。
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Swap the bracketed parts for your own details before sending.
[家庭人口与年龄][房型][住家/白班][做饭、清洁、带孩子或老人中的哪几项][饮食偏好与禁忌][全家起床与睡觉时间][月薪与休息安排][具体摩擦或「第一次请」]
How to use
摄像头和财物规则要在第一天说清，事后补说最伤信任。
Try tweaking it
- Ask for a checklist and timeline, marking which parts need a professional.
- Replace "what should I do" with "which three things first, and when".
What you should get
- An ordered action list with deadlines
- What must be confirmed with a professional or official channel
Common mistakes
- Using it as the doctor or lawyer and acting on the answer directly.
- Taking a single conclusion without asking about preconditions or real costs.
How to check the output
- It gives an order of steps and a decision deadline.
- It flags what must be confirmed with a doctor, lawyer or official channel.
Where it works
- Good for: turning everyday decisions into checklists and timelines, flagging what needs a professional.
- Watch out: health, insurance and legal output is reference only — confirm with a doctor, broker or lawyer.