Build a Network Without Feeling Fake
Added 2026-11-04
Start from what you can offer, not from what you want.
I am not good at socialising but want a useful network (context below). Give me a method: 1) three concrete values I can offer — information, skill, introductions; 2) an opening structure for contacting a stranger in three sentences or fewer; 3) how to follow up without feeling like spam; 4) which social rituals are actually worthless; 5) a minimal monthly routine, without attending lots of events.
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How to use
人脉的关键不是认识多少人，是别人为什么记得你。
Try tweaking it
- Rewrite each experience as action + result + verifiable number.
- Have it gather the job requirements first, then rewrite against them.
What you should get
- Rewritten bullets: action, result, number
- Likely follow-up questions and how to answer
Common mistakes
- Asking it to "optimise the CV", and every line starts sounding like a template.
- Adding projects you never did — it falls apart in the first interview.
How to check the output
- Each line is action + result + number, and you can defend the details.
- Nothing you did not actually do has been added.
Where it works
- Good for: rewriting experience as action + result + verifiable metric for CVs and interviews.
- Watch out: metrics must be real; AI can phrase them, not invent them.